I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?

I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?


because i know she is not into me(dont ask me how,i am sure she doesnt feel the same way) i feel really hopeless this time. i feel sick and weak all day and dont want to do anything.its like im living in hell without her.School is closed and i cant see her(im 19 by the way,dont think im 12) what should i do? i really need help!!

I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?
Hun, this isn't love or a crush.. it's an infatuation.. go ahead and look up the definition.. You're obsessed with someone who isn't into you.. that's not love. There was a guy back in high school who used to chase after me all the time. He was so sweet about it. He drew me pictures and wrote me poems and letters. But the attraction just wasn't there for me. It's been three years since I've graduated high school. He contacted me and actually apologized for all the stuff he did back in high school. Realizing that we weren't meant for eachother. He moved on and now we're friends.. this is what we were supposed to be the whole time. But, he scared me away back then. If you have never pursued her than how do you know she doesn't like you.. or that the attraction couldn't potentially be there? If you know that this will never be than find a different girl to swoon over.. The sooner you find a love that is returned the sooner your spell will be broken over this girl. You will probably never stop having feelings for this girl.. but maybe you can get on with your life. Hope all ends well!
Reply:if she is single ask her on a date. dont tell her how you feel right away you will scare her. let yr friendship and dating grow first
Reply:YOU KNOW WHAT I'M NO GOOD AT THIS STUFF I OPEN MY MOUTH AND I SOUND LIKE CHARLEY BROWNS TEACHER SORRY, THE LAST TIME I GAVE ADVICE THE DUDE GOT HIS EYE BLACKED BY A GIRL!
Reply:how do you know? HOW DO YOU KNOW SHE DOSENT FEEL THE SAME WAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW THIS? WHAT DID YOU DO TO COME UPON THIS INFORMATION?HOW DO YOU KNOW? HOW DO YOU KNOW HOW DO YOU KNOW?
Reply:A smart invitation to her to have a nice lunch on a Saturday after noon could solve your problem. There you have to express youself for you. Don't trust any friend's assistance - She will go away with your friend!
Reply:The best thing to do since your so sure that she is not into you is sadly to keep it to yourself because you don't want to make things werid between you two or worse lose her forever UNLESS... she is really open mind and you can talk to her about ANY thing then tell her what how you feel. And as much as we think we know how a person really feel we don't. Maybe she is holding back too? My vote: if she is cool talk to her.
Reply:if you do not tell her she will never know...give her a chance to decide...you might be surprised
Reply:I'm a girl. In my opinion, its only fair to tell what you feel, if you're honest about it. I would think it unfair if some guy loved me, and did not tell me about it. Tell her about your feelings, and make sure you let her know the actual depth of your passion, at the same time not over doing it. Girls can be silly, true, but they're not all THAT heartless. It won't be a BAD no, if one,i.e..
Reply:if you know things won't work out then move on, but if you have full faith in your love and your love is pure she'll come around.