Monday, November 16, 2009

What would you do when your classmates or collegues kept on gossipping about your best friends?

My classmates consists of 2 clans-A and B-they are of different race. Since they were racists eventhough it might be just their preferences to mix among people with same race, i don't mix much or get too deep with either group.


As the clan A, are not speaking the same language as i do, i can hardly get close to them.


But clan B they speak the national language, so i understand well of what they are talking about, but i dislike the topics of their conversations(gossips and untrue things about innocent people they can step their foot on)They are rude and not to mention,since they make up about 50%of the class population, they think that they are great.


I dont mix with them often but since they are my classmates,i need them sometimes.But often they talk badly of my friends which i knew so well tht whatever they are saying isnt true..i felt its my obligation to shut them up,sometimes i would rethink of the effect to myself.but i need to protect my friend.wht sud i do?

What would you do when your classmates or collegues kept on gossipping about your best friends?
Protect your friend and lose these people as sources of need. There are probably many better sources that aren't there for any other reason except education.
Reply:Speak with the principal or teacher, first. Don't try and take things in your own hands as it may backfire on you. Talk with your best friends and go as a group to a superior in charge.
Reply:Salamu3alykum:





it is imprtant to realize that our religion asks us to have hope in people. These people are rude but there might be a chance to fix this. If you feel obligated to defend your friends then you should do it by a nice word. Lead these people by example and try to always talk to them about these things in a way that they won't feel insulted. Otherwise only talking to thme when you really need to
Reply:Defend your friends.


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