Thursday, November 19, 2009

I feel a tension between my classmates and I?

In the beginning of the year I have been nice to my classmates and we were friendly everything was cool... But for some reason now they dont talk to me much and I always have trouble finding a partner for group assignment, i know the you have to be a friend to make a friend thing and i thought i did do that yet Im not sure if i have any friends in my class, its weird i have no trouble making friends in other classes. Even when i try to talk to them its like they don hear me, oh what do i do???? Im in 8th grade, what do i do?

I feel a tension between my classmates and I?
Hey kitkat,


I am in 8th grade too.


I think you behave like them when you are around them. That's why they dont give you any attention. This is from my experience.


The only way to find a solution to this is..... be yourself. That's it.


Don't give a chance tot hem to abandon you.


Be abondon early itself. Don't try to be friends with them. That doesn't mean don't talk to them.


If somebody wants a help, help that one, with pleasure.


You willl find a nice frnd for you in this way.


I think you are not able to judge yourself, sweety.


So........have your own personality.


Best of luck!!!


I am telling you from my experience
Reply:This might sound mean but to have friends you have to sorta JUMP in. But you missed the chance. You can try again but it'll be harder to find friends because they already HAVE friends. You should have said, 'Hey want to come over and study?' Now since they already have friends they probably make plans over the phone or something like that. So find a person who is NEAR the friend meter an invite her over.
Reply:Don't worry about it. You don't have trouble making friends in other classes. Just do the best you can and don't let it get to you. It may not be reasonable to expect friends in every class.
Reply:Welcome to my world. I had trouble with stuff, until I saw a shrink recently, then my life started to improve. Try seeing somebody. It turns out I had ADHD. Now I have a much better relationship with my friends.


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