My husband contacted his old female classmates?

my husband after 12 years of marriage, joined classmate and has been emailing his female classmates and giving them his office phone number, what you think, why would a married man do this I went to school with males but I don't care about seeing are hearing from them I could give a f*** what they are doing, I ask him why.. he said when he was in school he was known as the cats meow,,,,,lol....tell me what you think and what should I do..

My husband contacted his old female classmates?
adultry begins with just a conversation, and a few times meeting that person, i myself would not be confortable with it.in marriage we need boundaries, one of the boundaries involves other people. keep your eyes open. why does he feel the need to talk to these women, please communicate with him and ask him. when there are problems in a marriage all it takes is the presence of another to destroy a marriage. when another person is involved in your marriage the other person really doesn't have to work so hard when problems arise because they already have someone they can go to.
Reply:Maybe he's in a rut, bored, feeling average or unattractive... and he misses feeling the way he did then. Mid-life crisis...so to speak. No harm done yet.... but keep your eyes open. If you're that worried,... stroke his ego a little, make a stronger effort with him.... guys need that.
Reply:OK.. you need to talk to your husband... and if and only if you do not care if he talks to them you need to ask him to give the home number only. That way you know when they call (that is if you have caller ID) and the women know that he is married. But right now it sounds like he is trying to have his cake and eat it too.
Reply:Sounds like he is having a crisis. He is contacting them to see "If he still has that charm" or "The Cats Meow"





If you trust him do nothing. If not it is time to start talking about the situation. Hopefully these women are happily married.
Reply:Leave him alone with his fantasies and don't nag him - that just makes you look insecure. Watch him like a hawk though - but keep your mouth
Reply:you should definitely let him know how it makes you feel. for now, it sounds pretty innocent. but keep an eye on him, though. any cell phone records, things like that.


sometimes this is innocent, sometimes it turns into something more. good luck!
Reply:maybe they were really good friends?





i would do that with my female friends if i contacted them 20 years later maybe not phone number...but i would email
Reply:Let me say this on being on the other side of the fence. I had a old friend from school contact me through classmates and he's wife was pissed but you got to understand that he's your husband and as long as these other women know about you and respect your relationship then there shouldn't be a problem of catching up with what's going on with each other. If they cross the line , like want to sleep with him then you need to question your relationship ASAP.... Good luck and don't worry as much because he's YOUR husband for a reason.
Reply:He has his own agenda.
Reply:I believe you need to tell him how you feel about the situation. I would be angry to be honest!


lol, start meowin' at him..
Reply:Do not tolerate this nonsense from hubby...


He is on the way to destroying your marriage..


Tell him that you are not going to put up with this ...


You will divorce him if he keeps it up...
Reply:Looks like he's desperate to get attention from the ladies. I'd be very wary if I were you.
Reply:i think you should trust your husband, if hes cheating on you there will be a green stripe under his penis





did you check that
Reply:I guess alot of people do this, but did he tell you about it first or go behind your back to do it ?? If he went behind your back then he has something to hide from you !! That wouldn't be good ! Maybe just a friend from school but he shouldn't keep calling her and keep talking to her !! A one time reuion with you there is o.k. but it should stop after that !! He is married!!
Reply:Did he tell you about this or did you stumble on the information? Maybe he is trying to make you jealous? It kinda sounds like that is the case., cause if he offered the info up to you I would say he wants a little more attention. If he is sneaky about it I might just worry about that. He is your husband , do you think he is cheating on you? Maybe you just need to sit down and ask him what the hell is going on? I would., Good luck Hon, remember don't ask what you don't want to know? you just might find out.
Reply:no harm in talking.
Reply:take away his computer
Reply:I hope some one out there can help you! the Internet has caused alto of people grief. the only thin I can think of, is talk to him, tell him he is married, and that is not acceptable behavior for a married man, and I would like to know what is the cats meow?


he is reliving his youth, it is gone, he needs to put the past in the past, he is not there any more, make him set and talk to you!!


maybe you need a mediator!
Reply:OK , I just hope that you are in for a surprise of you life , I did contact one of my high school guy friends, and I am also married and guess what ?? I slept with him many times and well I regret


that classmates I really made a big mistake by going on that , just be Leary of your husband , I am now with living with that ,
Reply:Well if you know that you have a solid relationship I wouldn't worry. Always remember what is done in the dark comes to the light. So don't go digging....