How do I fit in with my classmates? I jus don't get along. only friend left school. I can't be easy with peple

Some think I'm lame. When I try to mix with good people, most are nice but i just feel uneasy. Some people think i'm mean because of my face expression which comes on when i feel uneasy from inside. I'm someone different from what others think i am, im also into crushes and stuff, but people get surprised when they hear that. Im very pretty ( no lie), but i think my personality is lame and dumb as people say behind my back.How to mix with people? Or at least classmates?Any tips?

How do I fit in with my classmates? I jus don't get along. only friend left school. I can't be easy with peple
This is really tough because girls will be mean. Sometimes they do it for jealousy sometimes because they don't having anything else to do. You should start by complementing them, sharing your interests, smiling (even if you don't feel happy, just with a smile you can make people feel special) and try not to feel awkward, shy or lame!
Reply:look honey, u say that u think u're dumb or whatever, if u really wanna mix with ppl, u first have to have confidence in urslef, cuz belive me ppl me can easily sense these nagative vibes which prpbably ... defintely drives ppl away, u say that u're pretty ( which works for u) so u should focus on that and try to show the whole world the best in you, and it's way much easier to socialize when u're happy with urself ...u won't feel that uneasiness anymore, if u don't accpet urself ,how do u expect ppl to accept u?!





good luck
Reply:sory,because I'm ato fall in love............
Reply:Wow, i'm in a similar position, i recently came to an all girls school, where everyone is friends with someone, except me. The way i'm handling it right now is with a 'i'm here to learn not socialise' attitude, i don't know how long it'll last but hey i'll deal with that when the time comes. In the meanwhile i really don't know what to suggest, i talk to friends from my previous school and that makes me feel better everyday. Maybe you can do the same? And maybe adopt that attitude of learning as opposed to socialising. of course, i'm 16 and in higher education so i can remain focus because of the fact that if i fail my studies i'll have a crappy life, which keeps me motivated and within the frame of that attitude, i don't know about you though. Anyway if you wanna talk, my inbox is open, i know its hard socialising with people you feel uneasy around, i refuse to talk to anyone who comes within 10 feet of me, because i'm so shy and in my own shell. But i understand talking about it with someone you either know or dont know can help, so yeah, feel free to email me if you wanna talk. =)





Good luck.