Girls- if u happened to like a guy, would people's (classmates) opinion about him(looks)make u change ur mind?

like if a couple of guyz( classmates) compared themselves to him and talked about how unattractive he is.

Girls- if u happened to like a guy, would people's (classmates) opinion about him(looks)make u change ur mind?
Well if i really liked the guy i wouldn't care but i mean that's what they think someone else could think differently.
Reply:The only opinion that counts is yours.
Reply:nope!
Reply:maybe the guys who made the comments like you!!


look, all i can say is that you should like a guy for the kind of person he is not for what he looks like, i know, i know... you obviously have to be attracted to him, but if you liked him at first and enough to the point of not being able to take him off your mind...then its a good sign and dont listen to those losers that made the comment to you!!! theyre just jealous and theyre not confident enough about themselves because if they have to talk about somebody else to the point of comparing themselves to him...then theyre insecure of what they are and their looks!! dont pay mind! give this guy you like a chance!! he may not be Mr. America, but im sure you like him for who he is, not what he looks like right?


:)


good luck
Reply:It wouldn't really matter if I truly liked him. I would just think that the guys who made those comments were immature.
Reply:Whether or not he is attractive is an individual preference,if you like him you must find him attractive not your friends. Tell them to keep their opinions to themselves, or you can always play their game and tell them their boyfriend is really unattractive and see how they respond.
Reply:Well now that I'm older and wiser, other peoples opinions wouldn't bother me.





But sadly, when I was younger something like this happened and I broke up with the guy. They kept making of it and it embarrassed me. I regret it and I still had a crush on him. Still do, I see him every now and then. We haven't talked since. I don't blame him for not wanting to talk to me.
Reply:Depends on how much i am into looks. If I really like him for him nothing they say will change my mind.
Reply:NEVER - - so WHAT If they don't think the way you do. NEVER have I let other people's opinions of someone's LOOKS influence me one way or the other.
Reply:I've had this problem and it's hard to ignore other people's comments, especially if they're from your friends and family. It really does make things hard, but if you really like the guy than no one else's opinions should matter. The only person's opinion who you should care about is your own.





Also, remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you find him attractive, that's all that should matter.
Reply:The opinions of others wouldn't change my mind at all. I'd probably end up thinking less of the classmates who have a low opinion of the guy I like, but then I'd probably just think they weren't feeling up to par themselves and I'd feel sorry for them (but that's my INFP personality there). It wouldn't change my mind at all, really.
Reply:I am one that dosen't go just by looks, I am more interested in there peronality, do they make me laugh, treat you good, have alot in common. Thats is what I used to look for but I am married now so I no longer have to do that. I found the man of my dreams...