Classmates talking awful to my face?

This is a rant and I need advice.


My classmates always make fun of my boyfriend to my face. They call him names talk about him make fun of him ect...How do I respond without sounding like a eight year old who says "get a life" or "grow up"...or the girls on "Americas Next Top Model" who say "Im the better person...and Im worth more" I would like to sound like I know what Im saying and I want to make a impact on them so they will stop. These kids are wicked dumb so I guess I could wip in a couple of big words in..I have no idea what to do. Help...I love him so much.....My classmates is the the 16 and 17 age range if that helps. Thanks

Classmates talking awful to my face?
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the best thing 2 do is laugh nd when they see this and that yur not retorting, they will stop. now tht will reli annoy them. trust me, ive been there
Reply:dont pay them any mind
Reply:Since this question is still open, I just can't resist throwing in my sugestion of using a 'put-down' that was used almost universally among the teen crowd way back in the 1940's. Whenever someone was being accosted with verbal s--t by someone trying to be "cute" and spiteful, the targeted party would say "Fer-gitt?! Don't take STUFF frum boobs like you !" (Nowadays, I'm sure it's more proper to use the word 's--t' instead of 'stuff'. Then, if the attack started again, the target would say, "There you go -- FERGITTIN' again -- BOOB!"; and stalk off. It usually worked very well to "stop em' dead" -- (or start the gosh-awfullest screamin' and hair-pullin' brawl you'd ever want to see)%26lt;G%26gt;
Reply:Are these "classmates" your friends, or just people you go to school with? If these are your friends, you need to explain to them that when they make fun of your boyfriend, they may as well be making fun of you and that's insulting. If they don't get the point, stop being their friend. I know that's not always easy in the close-quarters of high school, but you'll survive.





If they're just your classmates, you can't change other people, you can only change yourself and how much you let this affect you. With this in mind, there's nothing wrong with standing up for yourself (or your boyfriend) and letting people know you simply won't tolerate being made fun of (or them making fun of him). Remember that people like an easy target, so don't make it easy.
Reply:Its simple they are just jealous, I know it sounds cliche but seriously that's all it comes down to. Otherwise why would they waste there time saying bad stuff about your man.





Yes its easy for people to say ignore it but when you are constantly getting it down the neck from a bunch of immature people in your class its not so easy...





Be confident turn around and literally just say





"you know what, the fact that you spend your time talking about my boyfriend is sad. frankly you don't like him that's your problem i couldn't care less cos your opinions mean jack **** to me and him... so carry on talking **** about me and him, after all you don't have your own life so i guess ill allow you to discuss mine."
Reply:knock her asss out!
Reply:dont pay any attention to them period their just jerks thats all ignore them defend him defend him but remember violence solves nothing .
Reply:Say at least i have a boyfriend who loves me for who i am not my boobs and isn't a total dick.





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Reply:They best thing you could do is say f*** off and kick their butts! Im not kidding
Reply:if i were u , i would just say, u guys r freakin retarded, don't worry they r just jealous that u have bf and they don't
Reply:I suppose the best thing to do is to ignore them and don't let them know it bothers you. Eventually they will get tired and move on to something else. Good luck and stay strong.
Reply:I know it is cliche, but ignoring them is probably best. People (in general) don't persist long (with any "task") if they aren't getting the expected results. Good luck.
Reply:just walk up, be confident, and tell them to stop.


chances are they're just doing it for fun and don't really care about it.


they're just being bullies.


so walk up, tell them to leave you and your bf alone, and walk away before they can say anything about it.





defend your man!


good luck :)
Reply:Just blow them off.


If you respond you are no better than them.


They will continue taunting you if they see you have any type of reacting to it. If they think you don't give a sh*t about it they will most likely leave you alone.


If not.. Go to your school guidence consular or principle. If they still respond by making fun of you-- Than they are not ven worth your time to worry about.
Reply:Well... do you think cats really eat mice? NO... Cats chase after mice because mice run away. Same is true. if they see you affected with the bullying they will never stop.


Imagine one day the mice didn’t run.. cats will be bored

















Cheers!!
Reply:I'm probably not the best person to give advice in this field, but maybe the best thing to do is to not bother stooping to their level and just don't say anything at all. You know your boyfriend better than they do. You don't have to prove anything to them. Just surround yourself with better people, and laugh quietly to yourself when they act stupid.
Reply:Your best friends are supposed to be the people who defend you when you're down, not the ones who are first to spread your flaws to the world. I'm ridiculously against the so-called friends who stop their conversation when you walk in the door, or nudge each other when you do "that thing you do" that's so funny/annoying. Who's sick of all these insecure friends who barely understand the meaning of friendship?
Reply:just tell them to be quiet and that is isnt any of there bussiness anways. if they are single say at least i have someone . if they are taken say ' well urs arent any better!' then walk away.





hope i helped.!!

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